The Mind over Muscle and Mass

Dear clients and friends

 Many of my clients struggle with over active minds, so my guides assist me with this understanding.

 Imagine how scary it must have been living in the wild for the cave men thousands of years ago. Just going down to the river for water could have got you killed by snakes, lion and other hungry animals out there. Therefore, instead of developing more muscle and more mass we started to think, to use our mind.

 ‘Yesterday one of the clan got attacked and killed again they had gone for water just after the sun had come up. Fear runs through the clan, someone needs to come up with a solution.

Over months and years of clan members dying whilst fetching water, one of the clan members came up with a solution. Her mind realises that she could not recall anyone being attacked when the sun is high in the sky, so she surmises that collecting water is the safest when the sun is high and at its hottest perhaps the animals rest and keep out of the sun. So from then on, they always go get water at midday it is not risk free but it proves to be far less likely any one gets hurt.

Her mind came into action; it knew from experience that members of the clan were attacked. Her ‘anger’ of losing loved members was high. She used this past knowledge and anger to motivate his thoughts. Her ‘anxiety’, ‘worry’ and ‘fear’ of losing others in the future motivated her mind into thinking of a way to keep the clan safe.’

Humans developed there mind instead of muscle or mass.

In today’s world, we do not have the same kind of environment. We do not need to try and fight just to stay alive, yes our world is still a jungle but it’s a different kind of jungle. It is possible to live with out fear and worry of losing your life.

The mind, I believe, evolved to find a way to keep us safe. ‘It is our friend when we are in a pickle’. The problem that we now have is the things that make us unsafe in our world no longer simply eat or kill us, they are our childhood ‘traumas’ and ‘hurts’ from the that seem to just keep on battering at us, if they are untended too. Now our minds keep making up different scenarios that might keep us safe from our feelings. From our anger of the past and our fear and worry of what the future may hold. The difficulty comes in when we may not remember or have buried these hurts and traumas so deep that our mind cannot find a way to help us so it begins to over work, constantly seeking an answer to make us feel safe.

I believe that it is possible to connect with these hurts and clear them and that in itself will give us a little more help, slowing the mind down, and helping us be more human and grounded and less wild minded and flighty.  

Love and light

Wayne
www.wayne-lee.com
07746515530

Acceptance the Ultimate Healer

I spend 2 days offering my healing gift to raise funds for the Tibetan children’s trust here in Bournemouth. I have done so for 3 years now and love the warm energy and feeling I get when I work with all these wonderful giving people.

I spend overall about 9 hours of seeing clients for 20 minutes sessions and am always amazed at how quickly I get fully booked. Working non-stop with so many clients forces me into being 100% in the moment with each client. It is mind blowing to see the incredible difference in each person’s energy yet they all still seek the same ultimate goal of loving themselves and being loved.

The lesson I learned this weekend was one that will stay with me present in my mind always. Four of my clients came to me all over the age of 50, all having lived hard lives with various difficult lessons to learn. In my way of working, I could see that they all had one similarity in their energy, the blockages that I am so readily eager to remove, I found un-movable. These blocks where already absorbed and accepted into these peoples energy field, permanent signs of the harder lessons life had taught them. My first feeling was that of sadness and I felt helpless, as I could not help free them from the energies that life had inflicted on them. I immediately looked inside myself looking for the positive that could come from this and what I could do to help.

What is it that I can do to help some one who has accepted themselves and accepted the lessons and life and who has moved on with their lives. I came to the wonderful realisation that these people had re-birthed themselves, they had found away to be at one with what life had brought for them and started again to seek for happiness no matter the risk. I saw this as a powerful enhancement to their energy and in no way a hindrance. All I could do was be with them, accept them as they had accepted themselves and rejoice in their strength and wisdom.

I learned that just being with some one energetically is, I believe, one of the most powerful healing techniques. It creates an energetic connection that teaches both people that who they are is just perfect.

I can only thank my clients for helping my learn so much and understand the wonder that this life truly is.

Love and light

Wayne
www.wayne-lee.com
07746515530

Emotional Timing

As usual, I am sharing with you the little things that make me think about healing ourselves.

I want to share something with you that I do not have my head around completely yet, this is Emotional timing.

 What I am discovering is that all emotions are either in the past or in the future but never in the moment. In the moment, we experience feelings. An emotion for me is something we think and a feeling is something we experience.      

Emotions are in our head, and feelings are in our bodies (soul body, physical body, mental body, bliss body earth body etc).Emotions can make you feel and feelings can make you emotional, but they never seem to be together.

 “If you think about a child who falls over there first reaction is never to cry in the moment the child is experiencing a feeling then the child’s brain relates falling with crying and sadness and then the child begins to cry. In the moment the child’s brain had no emotion just feeling in this case a feeling of lack of joy.”

Total joy would equate to us feeling blissfully happy after the moment and total lack of joy would have us feeling devastating sadness after the moment. I have concluded that in the moment we feel total joy/love or total lack of joy/love and levels in between. Before or after the rare total connected moments in our lives we have our emotions. We feel worry about things that have not happened and we “stinky think” about these things we have not experienced yet, creating fear and uncertainty. We get angry over what has happened and frustrated and sad as we cannot change the things that have past. However, in the past or in the future there is no joy/love at any level so if we live in the past or in the future we are starving ourselves of joy/love and over feeding our thinking mind.

 To be totally full of joy and love means we would need to exist as much as possible in the moment. I know this is easier sad than done but I believe that if we strive for a few minutes a day and work at building it up over time we can learn to be truly connected to ourselves. Our emotions feed our thinking mind not our souls.

It comes back to the same old situation. Being in the moment, grounded and connected to yourself can only happen if you let go of the past and of the future and allow yourself to feel your true self in the moment.

For me this is quite scary, I find I am more in the moment when I am with clients than any other time in my life. Realising this makes me feel a lack of joy. I am trying to find out ways that I can make myself present more often I will share my findings as I go along for you all to consider.

 In the end it seems clearing your old emotions and stepping out of your future worries is extremely imported to find true total love and joy

 I hope this makes some sense to you

 Best regards 

 Wayne
www.wayne-lee.com
07746515530

The Submerged Child

Dear friends and clients

As I learn and grow in my understanding, spiritually and on a healing level I try and pass this to you so that you may ponder it and see how it fits in with your beliefs and perhaps give you the opportunity to grow.

Recently I have become very aware of the different parts of our personalities, the inner child, the parent and the aware adult. However, I have also discovered another part that plays a very important roll in our lives. This part I call the “Submerged Child”.

 The submerged child is the part of us that is created from conception (when the soul settles into the first basic cells of life up to seven days after initial conception) until the moment of birth (first breath). Although the child is submerged in the womb it is 100% energetically aware. We know that sound travels much faster in water than in air and electricity travels faster in water than in air. It can then be argued that energetic intentions also travel far faster in water than on earth so the submerged child is able to energetically receive everything that may be going on in its surroundings. We would expect that most of its energetic information will come from its mother and father. Especially the emotional state the mother and father feels towards being pregnant.  

  I am finding that clients with issues that do not seem to shift can often retraced the issue to what their submerged child experienced. For instance:
A mother is very happy to be pregnant with her first child; the family decided that they would build a bigger house. 
Over the next few months, the stress of being pregnant as well as the stress of living out of a rented small apartment whilst the house is being built is definitely becoming difficult to cope with. In the last three months of pregnancy, it has now become a race. A race between when the baby will be born and getting the house finished and moving in. The mother starts to get so stressed out constantly worrying that the baby will come before the house is finished that she send an energetic signal to the baby that it is not welcome on earth and that being born is all about stress and anxiety. At no time was the mother at all trying to create a disharmony for the child, but this is the message the submerged child may have received.
Years later that message may still be a pattern in that persons physical and energetic beliefs, causing anxiety and disharmony that could affect relationships, happiness, wealth and many other things as not feeling you are welcome on earth disconnects you from the earths natural flows and disconnects you from smooth relationships and earning money becomes more difficult.

I have found a great deal of success in helping clients with smoothing out submerged children energy and have seen how powerful a healing technique it is.  

 Thank you for reading this and I hope it helps you in someway.

wayne

www.wayne-lee.com

07746515530

Love and light